#couples
71 articles on couples.
- Therapy & Alternatives
Nonviolent Communication Self-Study: Learn NVC Without a Workshop
How to learn nonviolent communication self-study without a workshop: the four-step model, the free feelings and needs lists, and traps to avoid.
11 min read - Modern Pressures
Phone Addiction in Relationships: A Free Recovery Workbook
A free phone addiction in relationships recovery workbook: four printable couples exercises to track, map triggers, set shared norms, and repair slips.
10 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
Premarital Coaching vs Therapy: Pros, Cons, and How to Decide
Premarital coaching vs therapy, honestly compared: what each is trained to do, the real trade-offs, and how to choose the right one before you marry.
10 min read - Communication
Active Listening Exercises for Couples: 12 Drills That Work
Active listening exercises for couples: 12 progressive drills from easy reflection to hard-conversation listening, with a printable sequence.
10 min read - Attachment
Attachment Styles and Conflict Resolution: How You Fight and Why
Attachment styles and conflict resolution are linked: how anxious, avoidant, and secure partners fight, why you loop, and the moves to break it.
10 min read - Attachment
How to Build Trust With a Dismissive-Avoidant Partner
How to build trust with a dismissive-avoidant partner: why it's slow, the small reliable moves that work, and the honest limit of what you can do alone.
11 min read - Attachment
How to Help an Anxious Partner Feel Secure Without Losing Yourself
How to help an anxious partner feel secure without losing yourself: why consistency beats reassurance, and where soothing quietly turns into enabling.
11 min read - Modern Pressures
Mental Load Relationship Checkup Template (Free Printable)
A free mental load relationship checkup template that captures the anticipate-decide-monitor thinking behind home admin, so you can see and rebalance it.
9 min read - Modern Pressures
Phone Snubbing and Mental Health: The Toll of Being Ignored
Phone snubbing quietly wears on the ignored partner's mental health. What the research says it does, why it isn't oversensitivity, and what helps.
10 min read - Communication
Couples Communication Games: 10 Printables That Are Fun
Ten printable couples communication games that build listening, appreciation, and repair, so practicing connection feels like play, not homework.
9 min read - Communication
Speaker-Listener Technique: The Worksheet and When It Backfires
The speaker-listener technique without the ritual: the floor-holding rules, a full scripted exchange you can copy, and the exact moments it backfires.
10 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
Affordable Online Check-In for Couples: How to Compare Value, Not Just Price
An affordable online check in for couples should include structured assessment, a feedback loop, and an evidence base. How to compare value, not price.
10 min read - Modern Pressures
Digital Distraction and Secure Attachment: How Screens Erode Your Emotional Safety Net
Digital distraction and secure attachment work against each other: why phone interruptions thin your felt safety, and the daily window that rebuilds it.
10 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
Low-Cost Relationship Support: What Works, What Doesn't, and How to Choose
Low-cost relationship support, mapped honestly: check-ups, workbooks, apps, coaching, and sliding-scale therapy, and how to match one to your situation.
11 min read - Modern Pressures
Phubbing Partner Co-Regulation Scripts: What to Say Instead of 'Put Your Phone Down'
Phubbing partner co-regulation scripts that name your need and invite them back, so a bid for attention never becomes a fight about the phone.
10 min read - Modern Pressures
Phubbing and Attachment Anxiety: Why Phone Snubbing Triggers a Fear of Abandonment
Phubbing triggers attachment anxiety by reading as abandonment. Here's the mechanism, the research on partner phubbing, and how both of you work with it.
10 min read - Communication
Imago Dialogue Scripts for Couples: Mirror, Validate, Empathize (With a Full Worked Exchange)
Imago dialogue scripts for couples: exact mirror, validate, and empathize stems, a full worked exchange, and how to survive the stiff early phase.
10 min read - Communication
The Harville Hendrix Imago Worksheets: How to Actually Use Mirror, Validate, and Empathize
The Harville Hendrix Imago worksheets, worked: how to mirror, validate, and empathize at home, with a filled example of each and where the page stops.
10 min read - Communication
The Weekly Check-In Relationship Agenda: A 30-Minute Order That Keeps Small Stuff From Blowing Up
A weekly check in relationship agenda you can run in 30 minutes: appreciations, wins, one concern, logistics, in a fixed order that survives a busy week.
10 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
At-Home Couples Check-In Questions: 50 Prompts Organized by Relationship Dimension
At home couples check in questions: 50 prompts sorted across six relationship dimensions so your check-in touches every area, not just the to-do list.
11 min read - Communication
How to Express Hurt Without Blaming: The Real 'I Feel' Framework
How to express hurt without blaming: the real four-part I-statement from NVC, the counterfeit version to skip, and the timing that makes it land.
11 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
How to Run a Couples Check-In Meeting: A Weekly Format That Actually Holds
How to run a couples check-in meeting that holds: a step-by-step agenda, time boxes, and ground rules so your weekly ritual survives past week three.
11 min read - Modern Pressures
The Mental Load of Domestic Admin: A Checklist to Finally Make It Visible
The mental load of domestic admin checklist: itemize the invisible thinking, see the real split on paper, and hand one whole category off for good.
11 min read - Communication
The Nonviolent Communication Feelings List and Needs List (Free Printable PDF)
The nonviolent communication feelings list and needs list, free and printable, plus the one move that turns a vague 'I'm fine' into a clear request.
9 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
Premarital Counseling Alternatives: 8 Options Beyond Traditional Therapy
Eight premarital counseling alternatives compared: what each option is good and bad at, what the research backs, and when you need a clinician.
10 min read - Modern Pressures
The Effects of Unequal Division of Labor on Relationships: What the Research Actually Shows
The real effects of an unequal division of labor on relationships, what the research shows, and why perceived fairness matters more than the hour count.
10 min read - Communication
Emotional Attunement Exercises for Couples: How to Tune Back In After You've Drifted
Emotional attunement exercises for couples who've drifted into autopilot: the ATTUNE steps and four simple practices to rebuild emotional contact.
10 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
100 Premarital Questions to Ask Before You Marry
Premarital therapy alternative questions grouped by the eight domains that predict a marriage's path: 100 questions before marriage, plus how to use them.
13 min read - Communication
40 Emotional Check-In Questions for Couples
40 emotional check in questions for couples, sorted by depth and mood, so you ask the right one for the night you're in instead of forcing a heavy one.
12 min read - Communication
How to Express Appreciation in a Relationship
How to express appreciation in a relationship when you're out of practice: why it fades, the Gottman 5:1 ratio, and scripts that sound real, not forced.
10 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
Gottman Relationship Checkup Free Alternatives: What You Can Replicate, and What You Can't
A Gottman Relationship Checkup free alternative covers a lot. See what the paid checkup delivers, what you can replicate, and where free falls short.
10 min read - Modern Pressures
Mental Load vs Physical Load in Relationships: Why the Invisible Work Weighs More
Mental load vs physical load in relationships: why the invisible planning exhausts one partner even when chores look even, and how to make it shareable.
10 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
Relationship Audit Checklist: Free Printable for Couples
A free printable relationship audit checklist covering friendship, repair, shared meaning, and fairness of load, plus how to debrief it without a fight.
11 min read - Modern Pressures
Relationship Burnout Symptoms: A Checklist for Couples Running on Empty
Relationship burnout symptoms, grouped into a checklist so you can tell depletion from the end of love, plus what quietly drains the reserve first.
10 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
Best Couples Apps 2026: Paired vs Lasting vs Agape
An honest 2026 couples app comparison with real prices: Paired, Lasting, Couply, Relish, Evergreen, Love Nudge, Between, Agape, and where Twogle fits.
14 min read - Communication
Emotional Safety Exercises for Couples: 5 Ways to Make Honesty Feel Safe
Emotional safety exercises for couples that make honesty feel safe: five repeatable practices, plus the moves that quietly destroy trust in one sentence.
11 min read - Modern Pressures
Childfree, Dual-Income, and Still Not Equal: The Division of Labor
Childfree dual-income couples still split labor unequally. Why the gap survives without kids, what actually drives it, and how to build fairness on purpose.
10 min read - Attachment
Co-Regulation for Anxious-Avoidant Couples
Co-regulation exercises for anxious-avoidant couples: why your nervous systems escalate each other, and paced practices that calm both at once.
12 min read - Attachment
Dismissive-Avoidant Communication Style: Examples
Dismissive-avoidant communication decoded: what going quiet, retreating to logic, and needing space really signal, and how to reach them.
11 min read - Attachment
The Dismissive-Avoidant Emotional Needs Checklist
A dismissive-avoidant emotional needs checklist: the closeness, autonomy, and respect they want but can't ask for, and how to meet each.
10 min read - Modern Pressures
Domestic Load Imbalance and Emotional Checkout: How Resentment Becomes Withdrawal
How domestic load imbalance becomes emotional checkout: the pipeline from invisible labor to resentment to withdrawal, and how to reverse an early checkout.
10 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
Imago Relationship Therapy at Home: A Guide to the Mirroring Dialogue
Imago relationship therapy at home: a plain guide to mirroring, validating, and empathizing, what to do when it feels fake, and its limits.
11 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
Interactive Couples Communication Prompts: Free Tools That Go Deep
Free interactive couples communication prompts: what makes a prompt work, how to use them without performing, and turning answers into closeness.
9 min read - Modern Pressures
Phone Addiction in Marriage: What the Statistics Say
Phone addiction in marriage by the numbers: what the phubbing and technoference research found, how strong the effects are, and what it means.
10 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
Relationship Health Tracking: What an App Should (and Shouldn't) Measure
Relationship health tracking done right: the features that reflect real relationship science, and the vanity metrics and surveillance a good app should avoid.
9 min read - Communication
10 Daily Connection Rituals for Busy Couples (Under Two Minutes Each)
Daily connection rituals for busy couples: 10 research-backed micro-habits under two minutes each, anchored to the everyday transitions you already have.
10 min read - Communication
15 Softened Startup Examples From Gottman's Research
Softened startup examples, Gottman-style: 15 fill-in-the-blank scripts that raise a hard topic without defensiveness, with the harsh version beside each.
12 min read - Communication
25 Validation Statements That Defuse Conflict Without Conceding
25 validation statements that de-escalate a fight without giving in, sorted by intensity, plus the one word that ruins every one of them.
11 min read - Communication
Defensive Body Language in Relationships: What It Means
Defensive body language in relationships: why single cues mean nothing, which nonverbal clusters track with disconnection, and how to check.
11 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
Interactive Love Languages Exercises Online: Free Tools for Couples
Interactive love language exercises online: free at-home tools couples can do tonight, plus an honest note on what actually builds attunement.
8 min read - Communication
Micro Repair Attempts: 20 Small Moves That Save Big Fights
Micro repair attempts are the small mid-fight moves that de-escalate before flooding sets in. 20 examples couples can use, plus why accepting one matters.
11 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
Non-Clinical Relationship Tune-Up Programs Explained
A non-clinical relationship tune-up program, explained: what the category includes, the evidence behind it, and whether it fits your relationship.
10 min read - Attachment
Childfree Couples and Attachment Dynamics: How Not Having Children Shapes Your Bond
Childfree couples attachment dynamics: how being each other's sole secure base concentrates the bond, the upsides, the pressure points, what to tend.
10 min read - Modern Pressures
Digital Distraction and Couples Co-Regulation: How Screens Interrupt Your Nervous System Connection
Digital distraction quietly breaks co-regulation: the nervous-system attunement partners do for each other. Here's how a phone interrupts the loop.
11 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
EFT-Based At-Home Check-In Guide: Johnson's Hold Me Tight Conversations Adapted for Self-Study
An honest EFT-based at-home check-in guide: Sue Johnson's Hold Me Tight conversations adapted for self-study, what they can do, and where the ceiling is.
11 min read - Communication
The Gottman Conflict Blueprint: 6 Steps, Explained
The Gottman conflict blueprint: 6 research-backed steps for a hard conversation, and how to tell solvable fights from perpetual ones.
10 min read - Modern Pressures
Phubbing Partner Validation Scripts: What to Say When You Feel Invisible
Phubbing partner validation scripts: exact phrases that name the loneliness without attacking, built on the Gottman complaint-not-criticism distinction.
10 min read - Attachment
The Pursue-Withdraw Pattern: How to Break the Loop
The pursue-withdraw loop, explained: why the anxious-avoidant cycle isn't two flawed people, how to map your version, and the EFT move that interrupts it.
11 min read - Communication
Active Listening Scripts for Couples: 8 Common Scenarios
Active listening scripts for couples: exact phrases for 8 real scenarios, the reflect-and-check pattern, and the failure mode of each one.
12 min read - Attachment
Free Avoidant Attachment Workbook: Exercises to Print
A free avoidant attachment workbook: non-pathologizing exercises to map your deactivation triggers and practice staying engaged when you'd rather pull away.
11 min read - Modern Pressures
Digital Distraction and Gottman's Four Horsemen
How digital distraction feeds Gottman's Four Horsemen: the technoference research, the causal path from phubbing to contempt, and how to interrupt it.
10 min read - Modern Pressures
Egalitarian Beliefs vs. Actual Chore Distribution
Why egalitarian couples still hit a chore gap: the invisible cognitive load nobody counts, and a concrete audit to make it visible and shared.
10 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
Emotional Intimacy Mapping: A Checklist for Couples
An emotional intimacy mapping checklist that builds a visual map across four dimensions, so you can see where your connection is strong and where it's thin.
11 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
Online Relationship Check-In Services: Cost Compared
An online relationship check-in service can cost anywhere from free to hundreds per month. Here's how the categories compare and what the research says works.
10 min read - Modern Pressures
Phubbing in Relationships: What the Research Says
Phubbing in relationships, by the numbers: what the peer-reviewed research actually found about phone-snubbing your partner, and the limits of the evidence.
10 min read - Therapy & Alternatives
How to Do Relationship Therapy on Yourself
How to do relationship therapy on yourself: what individual inner work can and can't fix, a structured self-guided process, and the honest limits.
11 min read - Attachment
Secure Base Relationship Exercises: 8 Ways to Build a Foundation
Secure base relationship exercises: what a secure base really is, why security is earned rather than innate, and 8 drills to practice this week.
10 min read - Communication
The Six-Second Kiss: What It Is and Why It Works
The six second kiss ritual, explained: where the figure comes from, why duration is a proxy for attention, and 5 frictionless ways to turn toward your partner.
9 min read - Communication
Relationship Honesty Hour: 30 Prompts for the Conversation You've Been Avoiding
A relationship honesty hour, explained: the rules that keep it safe, when not to do it, and 30 tiered prompts from light warm-up to genuinely vulnerable.
10 min read - Communication
The Gottman 5:1 Ratio: What It Is and How to Measure It
The Gottman 5:1 ratio explained: what 40 years of research shows about the positive-to-negative balance that predicts lasting love.
9 min read - Communication
Couples Communication Exercises to Do at Home
Couples communication exercises you can do at home: scripts for hard conversations, repair after a fight, and the patterns that predict lasting closeness.
26 min read